Men After Separation

Men After Separation is for men whose relationship has been ended by their female partner, and who find themselves struggling to deal with the loss. For many men, the ending of a relationship in this way can be truly devastating. Feeling rejected and suddenly rudderless in the world, they can resort to extreme responses as they try to cope – or not – with the situation. Ian Macdonald’s sensitive yet forthright approach helps separated men to move beyond merely surviving a difficult experience, and encourages them to grow as individuals and create a new life for themselves. Recounting experiences from his own life and from those of many other men – including men in their twenties, who often have fewer emotional resources to fall back on – Ian suggests a variety of ways to beat the blues and get on with life. Written in a practical and straightforward style, Men After Separation will help men take giant strides along the road to recovery.

'Men often react disastrously to a marriage ending. Isolated, angry and grief-stricken, they can be profoundly at risk. This book gives the kind of help that can make a huge difference, with a gentle but frank and direct approach to men’s practical concerns, emotional needs, sexuality, and the importance of clear and rational thinking. Highly recommended.' Steve Biddulph, author of Manhood. 

'Men After Separation … is well suited to the needs and capacity of separated male readers. Ian is unafraid of offering advice and does not hide behind clever words and concepts. However, his visibility and fingerprints throughout the book lend an authenticity and personability to the material. Readers will be left in no doubt concerning Ian’s practical and hopeful humanity.' Owen C. Pershouse Clinical and Forensic Psychologist Architect of MENDS (Men Exploring New Directional Strategies) Program.